Normal is what Jesus both SAYS and IS. Abnormal is anything else.
Normal is not based upon my opinions or my preferences. It is not following the trends and patterns of this world, it is often opposite to all these things.
The biblical normal is not natural to the unsaved man, it must be chosen, with the risk of being seen as abnormal by the rest of the world. Which is the main reason many don’t choose it. We all like to be liked, so we will often settle for a lesser version of Christianity in order to get a bit more acceptance from those around us.
This is both dangerous to us and dangerous to those around us, who might be about to receive a watered down version of salvation, from a watered down version of a Christian.
Christianity is an all, or nothing thing. There is only one version of it, and any preference based adjustment of it renders it totally useless in the salvation of man.